Think 1000 times to Decide!!!

Aha, today i'm going to sleep when my heart instruct me to write in my blog again :D This week i'm so tired with my time because i have a lot of job till night and i don't have free time to relax my mind ^^ But, i have an experience about relationship that maybe can help you to think 1000 times when you want to do something.

Last year i have a new friend from Yahoo Messenger and he was very kind because he always cheers up myself everyday. Actually, i always welcome for everyone that want to be my friend but i have some experiences with boys that always make troubles when we have more times in friendship. That's why i decided to do something to "go" far from this person because i didn't want to brake our friendship. I was afraid if he always contact my Yahoo, someday (suddenly) he will say something that will brake our friendship (yeah, because i saw a lot of my friends that do it). So, i thought maybe if i "act" falling in love with him, he will go from my life (yeah, just my idea).

But, i did it!

Although i didn't know about him, i just act like a women that falling in love with someone. I wrote a message in his facebook, i wrote SMS to disturb him, i called him in his birthday, i called him with special name and every time i met him i always act as a women that falling in love with a boy. I thought it will be success. And yeah, i was right!!! He suddenly rejected my SMS, never replied my message, didn't accept my call, tried to "run" when meet me. Yeaaah, i was success!

But, you know, i didn't know that what i did to him will impact to my life now. I didn't know actually he has a girlfriend. And his girlfriend always knew when i "disturb" him last year. And i never know that she is very angry with me. She thought that i flirted with her boyfriend and she thought that i'm so bad. And, i never know about it till one day she came to me and asked to me why i did it to their life. I was very surprised because i did it with a purpose that i want he go far from me because i didn't want to brake our friendship. I explained that i never have a feeling to her boyfriend. And it is real! I love men like a Vic Zhou (Meteor Garden) ^^

From this case, i learn something that we need time to decide something. Never think from one side, but try to think from another side. I thought that i was right because i did it to keep my friendship. But for her, i like a bad girl that try to disturbed their relationship! To clear everything it's not easy because everyone has their own mindset. So, that's why, please thinking 1000 times when we need to decide something. Maybe we must know why, who, when, where, and how to decide something and its impact. Trust me, to clear something it's not easy! So, be wise, women. God bless...